I almost finished packing up our Yule Decorations yesterday, and like always, I hated doing it.
It’s not just the work; I mean, yes, I can admit laziness is one of my cardinal vices. But the real reason is that after the color of Halloween and Yule, the house looks so plain when the tree and the garland and the figurines come down. I’ve put all my festive away and have nothing to put up in its stead. It makes me sad.
The next holiday I usually put decorations up for is Ostara/Easter, and that’s fun because it’s all bright and spring-y… but lilies and rabbits just ain’t gonna work in January and February. Part of me says that it’s okay to have an “ordinary time†(to borrow a phrase from my husband’s Catholic faith) to better contrast with the holiday seasons, but (and maybe it’s the dramatic theater teacher in me) I mentally revolt against anything called Ordinary Time. Every time should have it’s own reason to be special. It doesn’t have to be as extreme as Yule and Halloween decorating – just a festive way of decorating the mantle and the centerpiece of my table would be enough. But I want there to be something important, something special, as a visual reminder that every season has its own sacredness.
So, fellow princes and princesses, I’m asking for help from you! Being more Swedish than anything else, the next holiday I plan on celebrating is a Swedish event still held every February in Uppsala: the Disting. Disting (I think it’s pronounced Deece’-teeng; if somebody knows better, please correct me) breaks down to “dÃsir,†meaning “sacred feminine beings†– everything from goddesses to Valkyries to female ancestors can be considered dÃsir – and “ting†(or “thingâ€) meaning democratic assembly.* This is a day to celebrate the dÃsir and ask blessings on the tools of our craft/livelihood (some cultures call the day “The Charming of the Plow†instead of Disting), as well as a big market day and craft fair.
So here’s where I need you. I’m kicking “ordinary†to the curb. I want to move from one celebration to the next (‘cause that’s how I roll). But I have never heard of Disting decorations. So how would you decorate to celebrate your female ancestors, sacred feminine beings, the artistry of craft, and the blessing of tools?** I would love to see any and all suggestions from any cultural or faith tradition (including ideas you just made up) for any area of the home; the more ideas posted, the better a resource this can be! But specifically for me I’m looking at mantle and table decorations (and maybe something for the kitchen; the kitchen never gets seasonal decoration love) that don’t require mad skills. Unlike GG, crafting has never been my strong suit (I cook, I write, I play piano and sing, but I don’t “craft†well), but I am willing to give it a try! After I’ve decorated up my home Disting style, I’ll take pictures and post them for you to see your ideas in action.
Thanks for your help, and I look forward to reading your ideas!
**This would be the GOOD definition of tool: what we need that makes our livelihood possible (like my netbook), not the modern “he’s such a tool†definition. Honestly, it makes me sad that the word “tool†has been given a negative connotation. What a wonderful thing it is to be useful! We should celebrate helpfulness, not denigrate it.
11 comments
k! says:
Jan 7, 2011
Okay, I’ll bite. My ideas are not based out of anything real, nor am I schooled in any pagan tradition, so take them for the thematic decorating brainstorming they are.
Use the Victorian “language of flowers” to build a centerpiece. There’s some wintry things like sage, roses, rosemary in the list that are applicable.
I love garland at the holidays and miss it badly when it’s gone. Bay and boxwood garlands are still wintry, but less traditional than the pine garlands we use during the Christmas season. You could just replace the one with the other, especially on your mantle.
Create a “famliy tree“. This article I found refers specifically to a yule tree, but I don’t think it would have to be one. Find pictures of your female ancestors and put them in small frames to hang on the tree. Maybe use symbols of Brigid (who I strongly associate with this particular festival day) or her Scandinavian equivalent as well. Find or create handmade ornaments as well. You could also use any of these ideas in a centerpiece or to decorate a garland — it doesn’t have to be a tree.
Set aside time as a discipline to research and learn about your female ancestors. Call the elder members of your family, talk to them, read letters and look at photographs, and chronicle your findings. It seems fitting and your children will one day thank you.
I’ll add more if I think of them… good luck.
Jax says:
Jan 7, 2011
Definitely going to do some female ancestor research! My mother’s mother is a wonderful storyteller, and I’m trying to memorize her stories to pass down to my children one day. I also miss the greenery and will start checking out bay and boxwood. Maybe I could take that idea of an ancestor tree and turn it into more of an ancestor garland for the mantle? Hmm… pondering… And flowers are ALWAYS a nice touch. I keep almost signing up for my CSA’s flower bouquet. Maybe in the spring!
k! says:
Jan 7, 2011
You could do St. Brigid’s cross as a handmade decoration. It’s my understanding that the Celtic variant of this festival is dedicated to her, and while it is a Christian symbol in this context, it’s origins are disputed. It’s a very easy craft to do.
Chrysilla says:
Jan 7, 2011
As for Disting, my own usual style of decorating with tools of craft/thecraft is actually to just leave them out all the time. My workbench with beads and jewelry supplies is laid out to show off recent work, with some clear jars filled with beads I’m not using yet.
If there are any crafts you’re into, find a way to leave them lying about the home in an “on purpose” way, like a nicely arranged knitting basket or such. If you have an attractive set of pots, pans, or dishes, just leave them out in the kitchen in an arranged way. And same for Pagan tools you use, especially those associated with water or earth (pentacles, bowls, chalices, etc) or female deities.
And I agree with k!, language of flowers = awesome for decorating.
There’s also Chinese New Year coming up. On February 3rd (it jumps around the Western calendar) begins Year of the Rabbit 🙂 Re-use of bunny decor! I think the colors tend to be bright red and gold, but I’m a little too busy today to do my own googling.
Jax says:
Jan 7, 2011
I love your idea about leaving “craft” things out in a decorative way; how cool to be able to display your work that way. The Scott is a woodworker. I bet I could figure out a way to display what he’s doing. Great idea, too, re Earth centered tools. That’s definitely something I can include.
I hadn’t thought about the Chinese New Year – how fun! (And because random Joss Whedon blurting happens around here… “Bunnies… bunnies it must be BUNNIES!”).
Thanks for your suggestions!
k! says:
Jan 7, 2011
That is a great idea — leaving crafts out attractively. Jax, maybe you could incorporate some of those yummy smelling wood shavings of TheScott’s into your decorations. I love those little wood curls that are created by hand planes. Sadly in my world, knitting + toddler + cat != a “nicely arranged knitting basket”… or a nicely arranged anything, for that matter. *weep*
T.K. says:
Jan 9, 2011
The battle is over
I lay here, amongst the others, in a river of blood
Darkness surrounds me but still I see
A princess approaching atop a white steed
She carries a lance, a raven on her shoulder
A swan by her side, her hair billowing in the breeze
Circling the battle field
Looking for one to set free
Choose me, choose me, chose me Valkyrie
Jax says:
Jan 9, 2011
Wow, TK! Where did you get that? Did you write it? That’s gorgeous! Thank you for sharing!
T.K. says:
Jan 9, 2011
I’m not much of a decorator :o(
As always you teach me something new.
I learned about Valkyries last night :o)
It was late and too much wine so I didn’t proof it very well. It should be battlefield and it should be, choose me, choose me, choose me Valkyrie.
Jax says:
Jan 9, 2011
That’s so beautiful! I didn’t know you were a poet. I’m so impressed. Better be careful; you’re gonna get your work passed around the heathen circles! 🙂 Want to edit the comment to give yourself credit?
T.K. says:
Jan 9, 2011
Thank you for your too generous comments. Feel free to pass it around any circles you’d like. I know who wrote it, that’s the only credit I need.